I installed an updated iTunes 184.108.40.206 a few days ago. When I did, I lost the remote settings and had to re-enable Remotes in Preferences->Devices. When I tried to access iTunes, Roomie gave me a 4 digit PIN to enter, and iTunes let me enter it… then did nothing.
After several minutes, I cancelled and tried again several more times, even rebooting the Windows XP machines that hosts iTunes. Same result… nothing, it iTunes and Roomie seem to be waiting for each other.
Windows XP SP3
Could this be due to the iTunes upgrade?
Apple is apparently still bug fixing iOs 6 — I’ve seen reports about iOs 6.1.2 and battery problems, so I’m waiting until 6.1.3 is out for a few weeks before I upgrade.